Monday, November 4, 2013

PRIVATE SCHOOL COSTS AND BROKEN MARRIAGES … JUST PAY, DADDY!

Fathers Beware … if you are going through a broken marriage and making arrangements for a co-parenting plan… Beware!

If you are with an attorney who would allow you to agree to paying private schools for your children … ELIMINATE THEM FROM YOUR LEGAL TEAM!  Do not agree to anything extra during your court hearings or negotiations.  The Court is not a moral battleground.  The Court does not care about you.  Once you understand this, you are one step closer to the power of self-preservation during a broken marriage..

I speak to you with no bitterness but true reality.  I am a Father of two incredible teenage sons, who do not speak to me or acknowledge me unfortunately because of the years of brainwashing from their mother.  Of course, my story is nothing new.  Many of us fathers have been through it.  And yes some mothers have been through it.  Yes.  Can you imagine that your own children who you love have been taught to hate you?  Yes the pain is unimaginable. I don’t blame my children.  I hurt for them.  They have been victims of parental alienation.

Now get this!!  Child support is paid.  However, the Court says … “you have to pay for private school” … does this make sense?  Make sure that you do not volunteer to pay for your children’s private school.  If you do, the Court will always demand and say,  “Pay for your children’s private school.”  It does not matter that you have no say in where they go.  It does not matter the price of the school.  Just pay.  It does not matter that your children do not talk to you.  You do not matter.  Just pay, Daddy!

So how did this scenario come to be?  While going through drawbacks of a broken marriage I was focused on co-parenting…. Attempting to make rationale agreements with a former spouse.  My way of thinking was that two parents who are no longer married should be able to work together.  Two people should be able to determine if a private school or public school is best for their children.  I have no problem with either.  So many factors are involved in a parent’s decision-making process.  Are the public schools in your city an option?  Can you afford the school in your area?  Well guess what? Don’t be fooled!  The Court will not take ANY of that into consideration.  You will be held accountable and treated as a criminal if you are unable to pay or don’t pay.  So beware!

Anyway … this is the beginning of the next step of the FMD Blog!!!  Stay tuned!!

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  1. MODERN DAY-APOSTLES?

    Some claim that there are apostles alive and well, living among us. Is that fact or fiction?

    QUESTION: What purpose would modern day apostles serve?
    QUESTION: If there are apostles today, why do they not mirror the acts of the apostles of the first century?

    Acts 2:43 Everyone kept feeling a sense of awe; and many wonders and signs were taking place through the apostles.

    Are people being filled with awe by the so-called modern day apostles? If that were true it would be on every TV network. It would dominate the cable TV channels. The Internet would flooded with accounts of these so-called modern day apostles.

    ACTS OF THE FIRST CENTURY APOSTLES


    The apostle Paul cause the magician Elymas to be temporarily blinded.(Acts 13:8-12)


    Are the so-called contemporary apostles causing men to go blind? No.


    The apostle Peter brought Tabitha back from the dead. (Acts 9:36-41)


    Are the 21 century pretend-apostles bring people back from the dead? No. If they could bring men back from the dead they would invite TV crews into funeral homes, to witness their miracles.


    The apostle Peter predicted the immediate death of Sapphira. (Acts 5:1-11)


    Can the false modern day apostles predict the immediate death of people who lie to God? Of course they cannot.


    The apostle Peter immediately healed a lame man who had been lame from birth. (Acts 3:1-10)


    If these so-call modern day apostles could heal men who were lame from birth it would on every, nightly, TV news broadcast.


    THE SIGNS OF AN APOSTLE


    2 Corinthians 12:12 The signs of a true apostle were performed among you with all perseverance, by signs and wonders and miracles.


    The so-called modern day apostles are missing the signs of a true apostle. Be careful not to get detoured down the wrong road by following false sign makers.


    WE DO NOT NEED SO-CALLED MODERN DAY APOSTLES!


    We have the completed Bible. We have all the information we
    need for salvation and living the Christian life. God's word was confirmed by Jesus and the apostles of the first century.


    2 Timothy 3:15-17 and from childhood you have know the scared writings which are able to give you the wisdom that leads to salvation through faith which is in Christ Jesus. 16 All Scripture is inspired by God and profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, for training in righteousness; 17 so that the man of God may be adequate, equipped for every good work.


    By A.D. 100 men had all the Scripture they needed for salvation and living the Christian life.


    WE HAVE THE RECORDED WORD OF GOD. THE BIBLE.


    WE DO NOT NEED SO-CALLED MODERN DAY APOSTLES!
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